How to change a person's feeling by juz telling him / her: "please don't feel that way"?
I wonder am I too emotional or self-indulgence drives me towards this difficult situation. I tried not to be so sensitive and emotional but indeed this is me! Can anyone tell me if he or she could not accept this part of me instead of feeling uncomfortable being with me? I wouldn't hope the closest one trying to keep a secret thought about me just to make the physical seems great. It is anyway dishonesty to me.
I used to have my very strong principle and thus my emotional expression is strong too. However I'm trying to be calm, or "pretending to be", yet my principle stays- against any dishonesty in any kind of relationship.
Once it's broken, trust fades, relationship breaks.